Toby

Cole

Toby Cole, 62, entered the kingdom of the Lord on September 12, 2025, in Little Rock, Arkansas. He was born on July 12, 1963, to Eusebio ("Alex") and Margarita A. Alejandro in Harlingen, Texas.

He is preceded in death by his parents, father Eusebio ("Alex") and mother Margarita A. Alejandro; and paternal and maternal grandparents.

Toby was patriotic, he loved sporting the American and Texas flags. He was currently employed with Precision Communications LLC for the past 15 years. He was a tower technician and lifelong resident of Harlingen. He loved his job, climbing towers, listening to music, barbecuing, and Jim Beam was his choice of drink.

Toby leaves behind his common law wife of 29 years, Frances Gray;  Daughter Kassandra (Gilbert) Becerra, Son Kenneth Waite, son Cody (Emily) Alejandro, Daughter Jolene (Gavin) Alejandro-Chacon; stepchildren Natalie Marie (Jon) Gray-Sanchez, Lucas (Heather) Gray, Andrew (Adriana) Gray; siblings Marco (Lucy) Alejandro, Javier Alejandro, Ruth Alejandro; niece Amanda Alejandro, nephew Marco Alejandro Jr; grandson Sebastian Becerra, future granddaughter Mavis Alejandro-Chacon; numerous uncles, aunts, cousins, and friends.

Visitation will be held on Saturday September 20, 2025, with a prayer service at 7:00 p.m. at Trinity Funeral Chapel of the Holy Spirit.

A chapel service will begin on Sunday September 21, 2025, at Trinity Funeral Chapel at 1:00 p.m.

Interment will follow at Ashland Cemetery in Harlingen, Texas.

Honored to serve as pallbearers will be Marco Alejandro, Javier Alejandro, Cody Alejandro, Lucas Gray, Andrew Gray, Kenneth Waite, and Juan Tovar.

Honorary pallbearers Marco Alejandro Jr, Gilbert Becerra, Jon Sanchez, and Gavin Chacon.

With profound love and remembrance, the family of Toby Cole have entrusted his funeral arrangements to Lenny Elizondo, funeral director/owner of Trinity at Harrison Funeral Home, 1002 East Harrison Ave. Harlingen, Texas 78550. You may contact us at (956)364-2444 or visit us at www.trinityfunerals.com